Nice Guys Need to Step it Up
By: Jamya Canty @anurbangirlblogs
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For years I have read articles and watched TV shows about how Women always go after the “Bad Guys” and leave the nice ones in the dust. From the outside looking in I agree, but as a grown a** woman I have to disagree. Let me set the record straight “nice girls” are looking for “nice guys”, it is just so hard to find them. They are often the guy at the grocery store who talks with us every Sunday in the line, the guy from high school who has been on our social media for years, the guy friend who is always down for lunch or happy hour. Nice guys are always the “gentlemen” in the background, admiring the woman from across the room while the bad guy gets right in her face demanding all the attention. The bad guy often pretends to be a good guy long enough for the women to fall for him. Bad guys are often bold, charming, seemingly witty, and pretend to be upfront with how they feel. Nice guys are typically genuine and prefer to have mutual attraction. However, I think I can speak for all women when I say BE BOLD, go after that women at the end of the bar or in the grocery store line. The world needs more nice women and nice men together winning with each other.